On this video, the gentlemen appears to be an emotionally controlling boyfriend that tends to check on his girlfriend pretending to be a caring guy whereas he is a scary guy. Usually, he cuts across as madly in love with you and very protective.
As the relationship progresses, you’ll begin to see a few of these signs of a controlling boyfriend. If you do notice these signs and it bothers you, put a stop to his behaviour. And get out of the relationship if he doesn’t change. It is not advisable to try and change him because he is not going to change. We can only change ourselves and not other.